The 52-week guide to becoming an entrepreneur – Week 42 & 43
That’s right, I’m doubling up weeks again. The theme this week has been all about the power that designing the life you want to create can provide you.
Most people go through life in the noise of ordinary and what they should do. Even those of us that can’t see ourselves doing it often show up wowing other people, but always feeling like there’s just not something we’re nailing.
It’s the safe and the ordinary. It’s comfortable, because there’s a predictability to it. If we stay on our course, and shoot for a raise at our next performance review, we know that the worse thing that will happen is that we won’t get it.
As an entrepreneur, I know that the same thing can happen. It’s easy to get some early profits going, and then incrementally increase from there.
But that’s boring. It doesn’t lead to any breakthroughs. It doesn’t create exponential results.
I’ve made wild declarations, and then acted so as to get myself there. In the process of doing so, I’ve come up against breakdowns after breakdowns. Those breakdowns that have actually allowed me to create something new on the other side of the old that was being discarded.
It’s not until we make powerful declarations and reach for something outside of what we currently know how to create that these breakdowns become possible. Up until that point, they’re merely problems.
“Oh, my calendar is over scheduled. Well, I guess I’ll just rearrange things and cut in to my exercise time.”
That’s fine, as long as I’m not holding myself accountable to win a marathon. Until I make a crazy declaration like that one, this is simply a problem. A speedbump that I overcome, and then revert to the old way of doing things.
But if I declare winning a marathon, holy crap, I can’t actually let that keep happening. It’s a serious breakdown if my training keeps getting push out to make room for work.
You can see that the wild declaration and goal I set for myself actually requires that I break things up, and it’s actually going to create breakdowns. What worked before no longer works.
That’s what I’ve been presenced to these past two weeks. Set unreasonable goals for yourself, and hire the best coach you can afford to have you achieve them.
It’s that simple.